About Arden Moore

Arden Moore travels all over the country to help people and pets better connect as an animal behavior consultant, in–demand speaker, best–selling pet author and host of the popular "Oh Behave!" show on Pet Life Radio.com. Known as America's Pet Edu–Tainer,™ Moore has been featured on CNN Headline News, Fox News, NPR, Martha Stewart Living Radio, Mike and Juliet Show and hundreds of television and radio shows throughout North America.

She is editor of Catnip, editor–at–large of Fido Friendly and author of 20 books on dogs and cats, including The Dog Behavior Answer Book, The Cat Behavior Answer Book, Dog Parties and Planet Cat.

She happily shares her southern California home with her "furry fab four" consisting of dogs, Chipper and Cleo; and cats, Callie and Murphy – plus an overworked vacuum cleaner. Learn more by visiting her website: www.ardenmoore.com.

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Nancy Moynihan asks:

I have just inherited a cat. She is very afraid of us and hides under the couch. I'm not sure if she's eating her food or using the litter box as I have 2 other cats of my own.

What can I do to make sure she is O.K.?

Arden Moore responds:

HI Nancy:

The feline newbie needs time to adjust to her new home and you and the other cats. Please try to usher her into a room - like a spare bedroom or office where you can close the door and ensure she is indeed eating and using the litterbox. Don't isolate her -- spend time with her in that room. If she hasn't eating in more than a day or so - call your vet. Cats cannot go long without food.

Kim asks:

Could my 13 year old year old cat have stopped eating and drinking because of a separation from his 4 "younger brother" cats?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Kim:

Cats do form close friendships with other pets and may show their grief from being separated by avoiding the food bowl. But it could also mean that your senior cat has a medical condition that has arisen. Contact your vet and treat your cat to a senior wellness exam.

Jan asks:

I have a 5 month old maleTabby kitten. He is crazy!He bites all the time will not let me pet him and is in ATTACK MODE all the time.He even scrached my nose while I was sleeping. I'm going to get him neutered, will this help?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Jan:

Yes, kittens can be frisky - and a bit ferocious. Neutering will help, but so will giving him appropriate toys/cat products to play with. He needs to unleash his high energy in a more productive - and safer way.

Dawn Printer asks:

Our 5 1/2 month Sheltie lately has been eating her stool after she takes a BM. Whats wrong with her?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Dawn:

Gross - yuck -- but to some dogs, eating their own deposits often signals a lack of a balanced diet. Some needed vitamins/minerals might be missing from what you feed your dog. Please consult your vet about picking a quality commercial diet that best meets your dog's age, health, activity level and yes, even breed. Please realize that the type of food can evolve as your dog ages or health conditions arise. Good luck -- and avoid your dog's kisses for now! :)

Nicole asks:

My cat is extremely aggressive, especially in the morning when she wants to eat. She will wake up my boy friend and I hours before her scheduled time. She will not stop meowing or bothering us for hours and sometimes not even after she eats. I set up these specific times with her schedule to reflect when I wake up and come home from work. Yet she just wants to be fet earlier and earlier. We tried an automatic feeder too, but she figured out how to stick her paw up into it and have constant snacking. Please help!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Nicole:

It appears that your food-demanding cat is quite clever at training you and your boyfriend. A common oopsie among us two-leggers is to immediately cater to our cats - feeding them - as soon as we get up in hopes of having them then leave us alone. Wrong. This only results in a clever clat - like yours -- realizing that wakeup equates to meal serving.

You need to institute a new morning ritual. Wait 30 minutes AFTER you wake up to feed your cat. She will persistent at first, but ignore her. You are re-setting her meal time clock. Also, you might want to check with your vet about your cat's voracious appetite -- it may be due to a medical problem -- and not due to her being a feline food hound.

Amber asks:

I have just graduated with my business degree but I want to find out more about becoming a pet behaviorist. What education/training do I need to pursue this career? Where can I find more info? Thanks.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Amber:

Animal behavior credentials come in various levels from PhD to hands-on certification. I encourage you to visit these websites:

International Association of Animal Behavior COnsultants (www.iaabc.org)

and Animal Behavior Society (www. animalbehavior.org).

Good luck! We need more experts who can help people better understand what cats, dogs and other pets do what they do!

karla asks:

my brother saw my 3-year old neutered male cat scooting his butt across the door mat. i checked the kitty's rear end to make sure there was no dried poop on his butt. i've never seen a cat do this. is this something to be concerned about?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Karla:

True, there may be no poop in the back end, but your cat may be expressing his anal glands. Phew! Consult your vet about putting your cat on a high-quality diet.

larry sarka asks:

my dog is 14 and he all of asudden his neck is tilted to the left and is walkin funny. i wanted to no what

this is

 

 

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Larry:

Please take your golden-aged dog to your vet for a complete exam. Sounds like a medical condition.

Bray asks:

I have a female kitty (will be a year old in February)and was brought to my home after having been evacuated from Corpus Christi preceding hurricane Ike.

 

My question though surrounds her continued 'need' to put her favored toys in her water bowel. I'm curious to know if this is just a habit of hers, or an indication of something more.

 

Thank you for your time.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Bray:

Your cat sounds like she is "part raccoon" - Try putting out a second water bowl - perhaps a pet fountain with flowing water. Some cats, especially Turkish Vans, are fascinated by water. Chalk this up to a wet, but not-too-weird feline antic.

Debbie asks:

how do we stop our cat from biting his fur? He has chewed off the fur from his paws, underside, and now have bare spots on his side.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Debbie:

Something is triggering this action - perhaps an allergic reaction (fleas, food, something in the environment) or stress. Please have your cat thoroughly examined by your vet. This is not normal grooming.

Bill Ham asks:

When we leave the house our cat, Bogger, often will go to the drawer that contains my wife's socks, open the drawer and remove a pair of socks. He will carry the socks to the kitchen and deposit them in the middle of the floor.

What do you think is going on?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Bill:

Your cat is showing off his hunting skills and has purposely selected a worthy prize - your wife's socks (the scent) to demonstrate how he can "capture" his prey.

Actually, he is letting you know how much he likes you -- I say, let him continue.

Laura Duggan asks:

A friend has moved and asked me to adopt her 3 year old part-siamese female cat. I am not averse, except that the cat (who has been here with me now for about a month) will not let me pick her up. She hisses and growls. I have been unable to get her to a vet for a checkup and a housevisit vet was unable to examine her. Is there any way to help her relax enough for me to pick her up? She does like to sit on my lap and purr, and sleep near me (though if I try and move her from my pillow she also hisses and gets aggressive.) She enjoys playing and I enjoy playing with her, but I'm not willing to have a cat in the house who I feel is threatening to me.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Laura:

You are being a very good friend to your cat pal. Can your friend provide you any more insight into this cat's "catitude" -- or is this hissing a new behavior?

Try plugging in Feliway and resist wanting to pick her up. She is feeling a bit unsettled - it's only been a month since the relocation. I would not allow her into your bedroom at night to become a pillow bully. Can you somehow usher her into another room with a cat bed/tree perch so you can sleep soundly - and safely - at night?

Robby asks:

I have an 11 year old neutered male cat. He's always had a very healthy appetite and never been terribly finicky about his food other than preferring dry food over canned. Within the last month, however, he has reversed this behavior by refusing to eat his dry food, but will eat some wet food. His energy level is good, his coat looks good and he's very playful and responsive. I am concerned because not only is it very unusual behavior for him, but he's beginning to lose weight.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Robby:

Look in his mouth - and take a whiff. He may have some bad gums or teeth. Also have him checked by your vet. Sounds more like a medical reason than a behavior one.

Cindy asks:

My 8 yo cat, Rex, was recently diagnosed with borderline hyperthyroidism. He also, within the last 6 months, has begun being rather aggressive with guests, laying his teeth on them when they are petting him (I don't call it biting, because he's not breaking the skin). He's always been very affectionate and excited about visitors, so this has been very different for him. Could this be linked to the hyperthyroidism?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Cindy:

Yes. My cat, Callie was diagnosed with this condtion a couple years ago. I had her treated with radioactive iodine - an expensive procedure with a very high cure rate. She is now back to her loving self again.

Paula Strauss asks:

My cat is chubby and she seems to drink a lot of water? Could there be something wrong with her?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Paula:

Possibly -- perhaps diabetes. Cats love to hide any signs of illness, so please have your vet check out your cat. If it is diabetes, don't panic. About 50% of cats can have this condition managed by special high-protein diets that avoid the need for insulin shots.

Donna asks:

Is there a good way to intruduce a kitten to my 3 year old cat? When we first brought him home a week ago the cat hissed at him so I have them separated. I really want this to work....please help.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Donna:

Practice patience. The two need to be temporarily separated until they can "meet" via scent and sound. I outline the entire cat introduction in my book, The Cat Behavior Answer Book.

Julie asks:

I had a 3.5 yo male neutered yorkie returned to me. Owner, who has had the dog since he was 5 mo old, said he was biting her and showing aggressive behavior to her, but not her husband. A complete blood workup showed nothing abnormal, except a slightly elevated BA. He has been with me for 2 wks, wiht no abnormal behavior to me, family and friends, or my other dogs. Can you give any insight please.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Julie:

You may not have the full story from this person as to what is really triggering this yorkie into biting. I am glad to see you had the dog checked out by a vet to rule out medical problems. Something happened in that household that sparked the bite-not-flight mode in that dog. Now, in your environment (which sounds welcoming), the dog may feel more safe and secure.

Byron Charley asks:

M dog is getting very skinny and is always and I do mean always hungry, even after he eats. It just started about maybe a little under a month ago, what wrong with him?! P.S. I'm scared :(

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Bryon:

A dog with a BIG appetite and little to show for that may have a medical problem. Please consult your vet pronto. You might be able to combat this condition quickly and have what you want -- a happy and healthy dog.

arthur asks:

I have a 2 year old male flame point siamese cat that has lately been exhibiting at what first was very cute behaviour but now has become a daily thing.And I want to know if this is normal?

What he does is he will face me and throw his paws around my neck as if to embrace me,then he moves his head under my neck line and begins rub back and forth as if to mark his scent on me while this is going on the hairs on his tail stand straight out,kinda when there about to get into a fight.

It's been about two weeks now that he has been doing this.He was fixed as a kitten and he is the only pet I have.

 

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Arthur:

Siamese tend to be very bonded to their people. He appears to be your BFF for sure. Unfortunately, behavior problems become major problems because we initially view them as "cute" and hope our pets will outgrow a behavior. He definitely needs to play more and expend more energy. He may also benefit by having a feline pal.

david paxton asks:

My daughter just got a 2 year old male german shepard from the shelter and had it neutered. It is trying to hump my 3 and 5 year old grandaughters. I need advice.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi David:

This is more of a dominance and not sexual behavior. The dog needs to be enrolled in a positive dog training program to learn polite canine etiquette. I would encourage bringing your grandchildren to the weekly dog training class for them to watch and learn. Then have them work on teaching your dog to sit and stay. Keep a doggy toy near by and when your dog looks like he is going to hump your grandkids, distract him, get him to sit and then fetch the toy.

Diana asks:

We have a new puppy and she seems to urinate every few minutes. Is this normal? I can't keep her outside all day because it is very cold. How can I get her to hold it in a little longer? I'm afraid that if I take her out every 10 minutes, she'll get trained to go evry 10 mintes and I won't be able to leave her at all. She has been here less than a week, and has already gone to the bathroom in every room of the house many times. I can't get anything done because I'm either constantly taking her out or cleaning up her messes. Please HELP. Thank you

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Diana;

That does not sound normal. Please have your young pup examined by a veterinarian = the sooner, the better.

Connie asks:

I have a 14 year old female cat who recently has started to pee & #2 on my livingroom couch. We recently got her a new large open cat box because she was just missing the box and hitting the mat and we thought this would help. Why would she be doing this all of a sudden?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Connie:

It may be due to her senior status and a medical condition. Please have her given a senior wellness exam by your vet.

Geneva asks:

My cat's sister died a couple of months ago from a tumor and i want to know if he's depressed or lonely. He eats but is not as interested in food as he used to be, he's not as playful, he sleeps all the time, he is always near me begging for attention when he used to be real independent. Also sometimes it appears that he is looking for her under my bed which is where his sister always was and now he lays on the blanket she used to lay on that he never used to lay on until she's dead. I've also noticed that he stirs and makes noises in his sleep a lot more than he used to. Should I get another cat because he seems to be so lonely and needy?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Geneva:

Cats, just like us, do form friendships and do experience grief. He may be the type of cat who enjoys feline companionship. Work with your local animal shelter and see about adopting another adult cat - possibly, female -- and one who also has a history of enjoying other cats.

Hilda asks:

Max is my 3yr male cat. for the past 6 months he has decided he would rather poop outside the litter box. I have tried everything. New litters, new box with & without lids. Feliway diffusers, Nature's Miracle, plastic runners, aluminum foil, citrus sprays, he has been to the vet and his blood work showed no problems.

 

I bought your book and have read it several times.

 

what are we doing wrong? there hasn't been any changes in the house or people living here.

 

I hate to think about getting rid of him but I refuse to clean his poop everyday.

 

Help save max!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Hilda:

Wow - you have been persistent. Is he neutered? Any chance you can temporarily put him in a nice room with all the feline amenities (litter box on the opposite end of the room from the toys, food/water bowls)? Keep me posted.

Jill asks:

My male 5 year old cat hates my boyfriend - he stalks him, hisses and growls at him and actually bit his ankle. Please help !!!!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Jill:

Try having your boyfriend be the one and only one who dishes out Grade A type treats to your cat. Also have him "arm" himself with some paperwads in his pocket. When your cat gets in that "ankle-pouncing' pose, have your boyfriend crinkle a paperwad to garner your cat's attention and toss it in the OPPOSITE direction of where he is walking.

Leslie Palmer asks:

My 10 year old Maine Coon has recently started kneading with both front and back feet when sitting on my lap. It appears to be a sexual release of some sort as he becomes very focused and won't allow me to touch him at all. We adopted him six months ago and he didn't exhibit this behavior until about two months ago. He doesn't seem to do it with my husband, just me. Other than that, he's a wonderful pet. I just miss regular "cuddle" time with him! Any suggestions?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Leslie:

Senior cats who "make biscuits" with their paws are doing so to recall fond kitten hood memories (like feeding time with their mommas). It is not a sexual response. I suggest you stand up when your cat shows early signs of starting this ritual. As for regular cuddle time, alas, we can't "make" our cats be cuddlers or lap cats. They are candid creatures. Enjoy snuggling next to your new cat -- and thank you for adopting a senior cat!

Nancy asks:

My 7 yr old male cat has been growling, hissing and swatting at his tail like he doesn't recognize it as his own. This usually happens in the early evening but sometimes in the a.m. as well. I took him to the vet and she could only suggest that he needs more stimulation. He used to play fetch but that interest pans out after a few throws. He also only eats portions of his kibble and leaves the crumbs. His tail game has gotten so bad that he sounds possessed!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Nancy:

That is odd for a mature cat to suddenly develop a tail fetish. Try more tests with a vet -- might be a condition known as feline hyperesthesia -- a tail-attacking condition. Also try providing your cat with some morre interactive toys.

tAMI asks:

My female cat is not fixed, and I have a fixed male cat she is 10 months he is 7.. if i get her fixed is she still going to pee on my blankets and floor?

Arden Moore responds:

I can't guarantee it, but it could help. Also, you need to use a protein enzymatic cleaner on the floor and blanket (Zero Odor, Natures Miracle, etc.) to thoroughly remove the odor from these targeted spots. For your cat's overall health, veterinarians recommend spaying.

Janette asks:

I have a very stubborn, very dominant 12 year old female cat with arthritis. For years I have tried several supplements to help her and for years she's refused to eat any of them. Even when I put Cosequin over tuna, which was her favorite for a month, she stopped eating it.

 

I thought I found the answer with cat treats called Hip Action. She loved them and ate them without fail for a couple of months. She was like a kitten again. Jumping around and playing like I've never seen her do before. Obviously the treats were working...until she decided she didn't want to eat them anymore.

 

It's been two days and she's already starting to limp again and no matter what I do, she won't eat the treats.

 

Is there anything I can do to peak her interest in eating them again? I know I can't force her. Any help would be greatly appreciated

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Janette:

Try warming up the treats slightly in the microwave to emit a stronger aroma. Older cats sometimes lose appetites due to reduced sense of smell - hope this works for your cat.

Barbara Walowit asks:

my 15 year old blind cat keeps walking around in slow circles? Please advise if this is a symptom of a problem.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Barbara:

 

Yes, it is a sign of feline dementia. Alas, our pets are enjoying longer lives thanks to advances in medicine, indoor living and nutrition. Try to call out to her sweetly and tap the floor for her to know how to find you to disrupt her circling.

LinF asks:

Our cat pulls out his fur on his back on occasion. I think he does this when stressed. What can we do to abate this?

Arden Moore responds:

Please book an appointment with your vet to identify the source of your cat's stress. It could be an underlining medical problem (perhaps feline hyperesthesia) or a compulsive behavior condition (such as psychogenic alopecia).  Good luck!

Miriam asks:

Hi,

We have three lovely cats; the mother (Princesse) and her two daughters (Minga and April). Princesse moved in with us, deciding we were her family of choice about 2 years ago when we were living in France. A few months later she delivered two adorable girls - and we suddenly had three cats. Not having the heart to give them away, we decided to take the whole bunch with us back to the US.

All three have always been extremely close; playing, eating, sleeping and hanging out together, and they have NEVER been separated for longer than a few hours. All of them are spayed, have all their shots up to date and are all in excellent condition. Our family vet even said he'd like to be re-born as one of our cats in his next life... *haha*

Our cats have free access to go outdoors whenever they like, although we keep them in at night – something they are accustomed too. They have the whole house and the great outdoors to hang out in, so there are no space confinements. They are all perfectly well-behaved, friendly, relaxed and confident. The perfect cats!

But now there is a problem in cat paradise.

Minga got bitten by a neighbor cat a couple of weeks ago and developed a very nasty infection. We had to actually "hospitalize" her at the vet’s clinic for almost a week in order to properly nurse her back to health. She is doing very well although she still has to stay inside the house for a few more days.

So far, so good - except for one problem: Princesse and Minga has suddenly developed a hostile behavior against Minga, hissing and lunging at her if she comes too close. There’s no fighting or violence, just "cold shoulder treatment". Minga is not shying away or hiding or anything, she is a tough cookie and completely fearless, but suddenly her buddies are not acting normally to her. Minga has always been the alpha cat, and now she seems to have fallen off the throne ... However, I can see some “give” in Princesse but April is "offish" and not very friendly.

I'm a bit concerned (of course I realize I'm applying human feelings here) since I can see that Minga is quite puzzled by this hostility, especially since she and Princesse always were very close. Minga has been back from the clinic for about five days and I know it could take a few days to settle back in, but I'm still concerned over this new hostility since I haven’t seen any major improvement.

I feed them their morning treats together. They have no problem eating next to each other. I’ve done the catnip treats with mixed results. Minga and Princesse can sleep close (but not too close) to each other without major problem. April keeps her distance and is “offish”. I let April and Princesse out so they get their exercise, I play with Minga to keep her active and make sure she’s not isolated. I’ve been stroking the cats, transferring theirs scents back and forth but now I’m out of ideas!

I know this is not a huge issue but for us it is since we’ve had such a lovely bunch and we’d like it to get back to how it once was …

I’d really appreciate your advice and ideas how to (hopefully) resolve this “cat tiff”.

Thanks,

Miriam

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Miriam:

I, too, once enjoyed a tabby trio - a furry harmony consisting of Little Guy (aka Dude), Callie and Murphy. Little Guy nearly made it to 20 before passing away. Sometimes, when one cat in a feline harmonious household makes a vet visit -- especially for overnight procedures -- they come back with can best be described as "clinic kooties." Minga's hospital scent triggered this tiff, but please be patient.

Continue as you are doing -- don't make baby talk to Minga. Be upbeat. Let your tabby trio reunite on their terms, their time. We humans wish for quick results, but that is not the same in the feline world. As long as they are not harming one another, please be patient.

Judy asks:

I have aa 7 year old male cat. Sometimes he is very affectionate,. He likes to rub on my face and head then at the same time he may bite my hand when I scratch his under his neck. He doesn't bite hard .

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Judy:

Sounds like he is giving you love nips. As long as you accept it -- and he doesn't break the skin, than it sound be okay. Head butting and face rubs are a cat's way of telling their people that they "rock their feline world."

Lori asks:

We bought a Lasah/Maltese puppy not too long ago and he was always very smart. We'd throw the ball and he'd fetch it and bring it back. We took him in to get fixed and now he seems like he is "slow" or something. We call him inside and he stares at you from outside. He will bark and scratch at the door when he wants to come in and then we open it and he runs away. If he comes to the door and we walk toward him to shut the door he runs back out. He's not playing either. You'd think he would follow our other dog inside but he just seems confused. What could be the reason? Could it have been a complication from the surgery?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Lori:

Possibly. Please have your pup thoroughly examined by your vet - including blood workup. Please write down his odd behaviors (frequency, specific details, time/date) and share this with your vet to see if there is a pattern (possibly is the condition stable or worsening?). It sounds like your pup may have gotten a head injury or something else (possibly, neurological) has developed.

kathleen weaver asks:

HI. Thanks so much for listening. I have 3 cats all of which we saved. "Angel" is a wondefrful male, we took him from a farm when about 3 weeks old, so sick, the vet gave him little chance of making it. Keira, a cat my daughter saved and Fiona, who we saved in a snow storm, her siblings dead and mother gone.

 

I have an old golden and a puppy. I know it is busy in the house, but one of the cats, (not Angel) is peeing on my counters. I have had them both to the vet to rule out a urinary track or bladder infection. I am currently giving them anti axieity meds, they seemed better, but tonight I once again found pee. I have 2 big litter boxes that they have always used. I am at my wits end and cannot live with this much longer. Christmas is coming and I am afraid to put gifts under the tree!

What would make a cat do this?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Kathleen:

You need actually to have four litter boxes (the advised formula is one litter box per cat plus one) that are located in various locations (including up and down levels). Your cat might be unable to access either of the current litter boxes possibly due to it being "protected" by another cat or being pestered by the young pup.

As for the counter top, take a baking sheet and fill it with water and place it on the pee scene spot. YOur cat cannot see the baking sheet from the floor and will leap up and make a splash. You are making the counter less appealing to your cat. Equally important is to provide some sturdy cat perches and a cat tree for your felines to hang out and survey the home from a height that is out of paws reach from your pup. Good luck and happy holidays!

Josh asks:

My dog is just over ten years old and i let her outside to do her business last night and it was the first time i saw her urinate more than once. I woke up this morning to find out she had done the same thing when my brother let her out and then proceeded to go 4 times in the house.

Any ideas? Thanks.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Josh;

Please book an appointment with your vet for your senior dog. She may be developing a bladder or urinary tract condition that may be easily corrected quickly with the right meds. Whatever you do, please do not scold her. It will only intensify her anxiety and may cause her to urinate in the home more often.

Colleen Marquis asks:

I'm at my wits end! My male cat (6yrs old, obese, fixed) is lovely to me, but he hates my partner and acts aggressively towards her. When she pets him his ears pull back and hunkers down. He hiss at her when ever she comes near! What should we be doing to correct his problem?

Thanks,

ps. he also has a problem with peeing on things. It was fine when he was destroying only my things, but now he is doing it to hers! Can we stop this?

 

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Colleen:

I can sympathize with you and your partner regardring your cat's inappropriate urination and catitude. Please consult your vet about putting him on a type of anti-anxiety med and about any possible FLUTD medical conditions. Cats can't speak English, so he is doing his best to display his insecurity by peeing and having hissy fits. You might also consider limiting his access in the house to one room - filled with must-have feline needs and toys.

Jenn asks:

I live with my boyfriend in an apartment and we got Oscar our cat when he was about 6 weeks old. He is very playful and at times will bite when we play. That is just one thing that bothers me. Another, is at night we let him into the bedroom to sleep with us but then he jumps on every and knocks stuff off of the night stand, knowing that Im watching him do it. So then we will "kick him out". He will go out in the living room and do his own thing but then will come and paw at the door NON STOP! I will let him in and he will be doing all the same things. He used to come in and go to sleep but now, it seem like he never sleeps. I even stayed up with him one night from 2:30AM to 5:30AM and noticed that he played the whole time. I don't know what to do!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Jenn:

Welcome to the first year of a feline's life - what I affectionately call, the "wonder year" because you WONDER if you can survive kitten antics! For now, remove all the items on the night stand -- Play with him before bedtime to tucker him out.

Kittens are savvy and attention seekers. Your little one has learned that knocking off items in the bedroom gets your attention (to usher him to the living room) and causing a ruckus there gets your attention again. I encourage you to get a copy of my book, The Kitten Owner's Manual because I outline in great detail how to survive - even thrive - during the wonder year.

Carol Skinner asks:

I have a 4 yr.old ragdoll/himalayan cat. She is in fear mode all the time. She has about 3 places where she lets me pet her and talk to her. And I am her favorite. She hisses at my son and husband. I have had since she was a kitten. Now it's like having a feral cat that lives with us and she's even starting to hide from me. I have tried it all, herbs, tinctures from Meg who went to the animal shelters to calm animal after Katrina. I have not wanted to put her on drugs because I wanted to do this naturally and pilling her every day would be a challenge because she hide all of the time. I just feel so sad for her because she lives in fight or flight mode all the time. Thank you

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Carol:

Consult your vet about other modes of administering meds than pills such as skin patches, liquids, compounding formulas. Encourage your husband and son to ignore her - to minimize her hissy fits aimed at them. She may have a medical condition that is also causing her full-of-fright behavior.

mary asks:

I have a 1year old german shepard mix female that we got from the animal shelter we keep her in the garage at night and we always take her out several times at night to use the bathroom before I turn in. she has had several accidents and contiunes to do so and I also have a female pitbull mix and never has accidents and now she also will have accidents in the same area that the german shepard does. How do I solve this problem?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Mary:

Your pitbull mix is doing a natural canine marking behavior to "claim" the top dog status from your German shepherd mix. Why is the German shepherd kept in the garage at night? Dogs are den animals. Please consider crate training him and allowing him to be in the bedroom (safe and secure in his crate) at night.

rickycm14 asks:

my boxer is 5yrs old. He always drooled a little but tonight it's uncontrolable. He looks like he's got a faucet in his mouth. I'm kinda worried because it just seems really abnormal. I've actually had to mop up his drool all night. This has never happenned to him before. Any ideas? Can he dehydrate?

Arden Moore responds:

Boxers are droolers, but it seems like the drool is becoming a flood, please consult your vet. There may be a medical reason behind this.

jailynn asks:

I have a male cat age 8 and he is fixed. He is constantly attacking the two females who are also fixed, ages 13 and 1. He has scared the baby so bad that she wont come out from under the be unless i am in the room or he is locked out of the room. I am concerned that he can seriously hurt the older one because she is so thin, and he out weighs her by a good 12 to 16 pds, and is more than double the size of the baby. I have tried displine water bottles, loud noises, locking him in the bathroom. All just temporary solutions. Please help, any suggestion would be great.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Jailynn:

Your two females need to be temporally separated in your house from your male. Consult your vet about using Feliway (dispensers that plug into an outlet that emit calming feline phermonds) to dissipate the anxiety felt in your females (which is "read" by your dominant male). If necessary, your vet may also prescribe an anti-anxiety medication that will actually tone down your male.

Finally, realize that not all cats get along - even if they are under one roof. If you fear for your senior cat, than you may need to separate them for safety reasons.

Danny asks:

Hi,

My cat named Stewey is 9 moth old, and over all a great cat. I'm having a problem with him chewing on cord's, shoe strings, and my daughters barbies. I was able to fix the barbie and shoes issue. But it's impossible to fix the cord problem since everything basically requires a cord. I was wondering is there anything i can buy in the store or is there a way to teach him not to bite cords. thank you for your time.

Danny

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Danny;

Help is here! Yes, smart pet product manufacturers understand your plight and there are special plastic casings that you can easily fit over exposed cords to stop nippers like Stewey (love his name!). Your young kitten is very oral-fixated right now and also needs appropriate items to put in his mouth --try putting a portion of his kibble in a cat treat ball and encouraging him to nose and paw it to recover the kibble spilled out. He needs to be redirected to appropriate feline things -- not your daughter's dolls. Good luck!

Susanne asks:

My male cat never covers his urine or feces in the catbox. I do clean it regularly. It seems like he is in such a rush, he goes in, does his thing, then runs out leaving a trail or kitty litter everywhere. What can I do?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Susanne:

Cats commony cover their deposits as a way to prevent predators from discovering them. It is a trait that has passed on from one feline generation to the next and dates back to the wild ancestors. That said, there are also confident cats - like yours -- who have no fear of predators and see no need to cover up their deposits. As for the trail of litter, there are products out there that are decorative and functional that "trap" the litter. They come in stylish designs and are rubberized mats. I use them for my cats' litterboxes and it makes clean up easier and I don't walk on litter on my bare feet.

Yvonne asks:

I have a 1yr old male cat. Perfeclty healthy in every way and has a play mate to boot. When i sleep at night he crawls up next to me and pulls my hair out and eats it. I have taken him to the vet and looked online for an answer. Please help me understand my kitty.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Yvonne:

You need to nip this unwanted behavior quickly before it escalates. Start wearing a ski hat or bathing cap to bed - okay, you may feel or look a bit silly, but remember your goal: to stop this habit and to get rest. Your young cat may not have been properly weaned and this suckling behavior gives him a sense of comfort. Weird, I know. You might also use citrus-scented shampoo to make your hair less appealing.

Tamra asks:

Hello Arden,

 

I have been the proud "parent" of Hercules Mighty Paws for almost 8 years now and he has always been ... unique. He is a pure bred seal-point munchkin that I have had since he was winged. Hercules has always been a very clean and well-manner "son". Yet, lately he has has twice left # 2 on my carpet instead of his litter box - although I keep it clean and no other kitties use it. (He is an only "child".) His behavior otherwise is still the same - playful, loveable and very vocal.

I also wanted to say that I have found your site very helpful and it has only added to the love I have for Herc.

Thank you so very much for your help.

Happy Holidays!

 

Sincerely,

Tamra

 

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Tamra:

Hercules is mighty lucky to have you in his life. Love his name! Please take him to your vet for a checkup - there may be a medical cause for this sudden litterbox boycott. I also devote an entire section to litter box issues in my book, The Cat Behavior Answer Book.

Tara asks:

We recently adopted a dog from a shelter. He's roughly 9 months old and is a quite the sweet heart. We live in a dog friendly apartment community and there are dogs all throughout the property. He is well behaved until he sees another dog. He fixates on them and there isn't much we can do to get his attention. We try to make him sit, a sharp tug on his choke chain with his lead, etc. but he gets so amped up - the hair on his back stands up, he jumps, whines, and today growled at another other dog. We also feel he may have been abused in his previous home as he shys away from verbal correction as if he may be about to get hit. We want him to be able to socialize with other dogs without the fear of getting into a fight, or getting jumped on himself and bit. How can we work with him to be better socialized and friendly with other dogs?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Tara:

Some dogs like other dogs, but when on a leash, they feel like their options are limited. They can't flee, so they act like bullies. Please get rid of the choke chain - those sharp tugs only worsen the behavior in your dog and can hurt his throat. Consult a dog trainer in your area who uses positive reinforcement techniques on selecting a more humane collar and possible harness for your dog. The trainer can also work with you on addressing your dog's leash aggression issues. Find one by going to the website: www.apdt.org (Association of Professional Dog Trainers). This problem can be solved and your dog will gain more confidence and calmness around other dogs.

matt asks:

i have a cat and a small dog that live inside. they get along great, even groom each other. they are allowed outside regularly and have both been house trained for 2+ years.

in the last few months the cat has started peeing in the house. usually in the same two spots. i started locking him in the bathroom with his litterbox at night and when i am not home. but now he is peeing all over the counter and the sink as well as in the litterbox. what is he doing and how do i fix it?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Matt:

The fact that you have cat-dog harmony and this is a new unwanted action in your cat, I suspect it has a medical cause. Cats are masters at masking pain and illness, so have your cat get a thorough exam by your veterinarian.

Reaghan Smith asks:

Hi Ms. Arden. I saw you book in Barnes and Noble and thought you might be helpful. My cat Bunkie is about 7yrs old. I had him at 8 weeks when I was living on my own. So it's always been he and I. He is very friendly and loves the company of people. We moved in with my Mom and Brother 4 years ago and I haven't had a problem with him until about maybe a year and a half ago. Bunkie sometimes will deficate on the floor whether his litter box is clean or not. Sometimes he strains too and I think he finds it easier to poop outside of the box. He came from a litter and most of them died of kidney problems. He has been vomitting a lot as well but then he'll go and eat as though he never was sick. I have

Always given him science diet where I follow the stages. He is now on the mature food. Every now and again I'll give Bunkie Whiskas but all of this he vomits back up and sometimes the food is whole when it comes back up. So I started giving him the minced food which he doesn't enjoy too much and very rarely will vomit that up. The only thing he doesn't vomit are his treats- Whiskas Tempations. HE LOVES HIS TREATS! I'm at a loss here what do I feed him? How do I get him to stop deficating all over the house? Does he have a medical condition?

 

Also in October 2008 he was very sick where he wasn't eating just vomitting. I took him to a vet where he was very unfriendly because he had never been sick before. The only time he has seen a doctor was when he was a kitten. Bunkie got well but we do not know what caused the sickness. I want to take him for check ups regularly but I'm fearful that he might hiss and swipe at the doctors. The doctors put in his file that he's very dangerous because he almost caught one of the aides in their eyes. I have my reservations about this as Bunkie is not known to attack but I digress...What do I do about Bunkie's fear of the vet?

 

And one last thing I promise. Bunkie is up at 2am to about 5am just running, meowing and being mischievious. He was a twin but only lived with his twin a short while which was before I adopted him. His twin died as a kitten. Bunkie is very active and learns how to play by himself. He doesn't get the same attention he did as a kitten but I do try to cater to him when my schedule isn't so hectic but I think he is bored. How do I get him to sleep peacefully throughout the night? I'm desperate and thank you in advance for all your help. I wish I had found out about you sooner.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Reaghan:

I will do my best to offer you some guidance for your complex situation involving Bunkie. As you may guess, I receive far more questions than I can answer in this fast-growing-in-popularity column.

Okay, first, Bunkie is now at the age that he needs a senior wellness exam. All cats need - and deserve - annual checkups to catch any conditions early (catching them early also saves on the pocketbook for you). Consider having a housecall vet come to your home to perform the exam. Go to www.housecallvets.org to find one near you.

Bunkie may indeed have a medical condition that is causing his "deposits" on your floor. You mentioned the straining - please convey that to the housecall vet.

A cat's nutritional needs also change as they age. Bunkie may fare better (and do less vomiting) with a quality diet. I recommend you visit the website: www.petdiets.com. It is run by a top veterinary nutritionist who can help customize a diet for Bunkie that works best.  Yes, even healthy treats!

Best to you and Bunkie!

catloverneedingsleep asks:

My cat has been waking me up everynight by scratching under my bed and night stand. he is 5 years old and this has been going on for the last month. I have tried to shut my bedroom door but he just cries and throws hiimself against the door so hard I can't stand it. what can I do?

signed,

catloverneedingsleep

Arden Moore responds:

Take a moment to identify any possible changes in the home -- or the immediate outside area that may have triggered your cat's new reaction. New bed? New pet? Departure of a buddy?

Also, you need to block the access of your bed and night stand to your determined cat so he cannot get underneat and continue this unwanted habit. Don't worry that you won't win a home decor contest -- you need to stop this behavior. Secondly, place a sturdy cat scratching post (one with a slanted angle as well as a horizontal perch in your bedroom for him to use. Give him a bit of turkey (no skin or fat) at night -- it makes cats sleepy. Wishn g you a restful night's sleep!

lInda asks:

My 18 year old cat has begun to lose weight in the past 2 months. She also has started to hesitate to jump, is obviously unsure of the distance, and has misjudged and fallen to the floor. Most recently she has a twitch to her head. Her head jerks slightly and is becoming ongoing. She has no problems with eating or elimination. I wonder if this necessitates a visit to the vet or if the inevitible is occurring?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Linda:

Please take your senior cat to your vet immediately. It sounds like a medical condition (arthritis among others). Medicine may help and extend her life. Also place a ramp or sturdy step stool next to your bed.sofa to help her get up on her favorite napping places.

Ivy asks:

I have a 7 year old male Golden. He is extremely submissive which is great. However, if I ever have to put him in doggy daycare he comes back upset because he is on his back all day with other dogs showing dominance or aggression toward him. He was very well socialized as a pup. Is there anything I can do to "toughen" him up? Thanks so much for this valuable service!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Ivy:

Goldens, in general, are the get-along breed. Your dog doesn't need "toughening up" but rather feels overwhelmed in a canine crowd. Consider having him spend his day in a doggy daycare that offers areas for 2-4 dogs rather than the whole crowd. See if you can develop a buddy or two for your dog - ones at the doggy day care and work with their owners on developing some friendships outside the doggy daycare center to build up your dog's confidence. Good luck!

Scott asks:

I have an 8 year old Toy Miniature Schnauzer. Over the past 2 years she has gotten to where she won't drink water from the tap in her bowl, or from a bottle. She wants to go outside and drink rain water, or lick the snow, or drink from the pond. Is there something wrong with her?

 

Thank you,

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Scott:

That is a weird preference. Why not jazz up the water bowl by putting in a meaty treat for her to fish out? There is also a new product out called Doggy Java that contains lots of vitamins and minerals in a powder form that you can mix with water to make it meaty and more appealing that rain water. I would keep your dog on a leash and steer clear of these outside sources of water because they could contain parasites and germs and you don't want your dog developing giardia or a bacterial infection. So, make the indoor water sources more appealing by the suggestions I've given.

Carol Amoroso asks:

I have a 15 year old male,siamese. In the past 2 months, he has been pacing and giving out a bellowing cry.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Carol:

One of my first cats was a cool Siamese named Corky who lived a long life. Your senior Siamese may have a health condition or coping with dementia. As our pets live longer - thanks to better medical advances, better nutrition and closer bonds with their people, they are also developing age-related conditions like arthritis and yes, even Alzheimer's disease. Please consult your vet to rule out a physical conditon. Give your golden oldie gentle reassurance when he begins to bellow. He may be feeling disoriented.

christina asks:

what do i do my 7month old dog chewed the cord right off my son's t.v.?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Christina:

Pups need to chew -- but on appropriate items like doggy chew bones, stuffed Kong toys or even ice cubes (meaty pupsicles easily made by putting some low-sodium beef bouillon in water and freezing them in an ice cube tray). It is dangerous for this curious, gotta-chew pup to sink his teeth into electrical cords. YOu need to treat pups much like toddlers and safety proof your home. Please go to your hardware store and buy the casings that fit over electrical cords to make them "bite proof." Also consider adding childproof latches on cabinets (especially where you store food or cleaning products).

I offer a lot of other detailed tips on surviving puppyhood in my book, The Dog Behavior Answer Book.

Gerry asks:

A 7 years old beagle mix, male, neutered has multiple behavioral issues. He was adopted three years ago from the humane society, was probably dropped off at the humane society because of his behavioral problems. Since he's been adopted he has never been 100% house trained. He would either have a bowel movement or urinate once weekly in the house. Recently he is doing this every day, for about the last two weeks. His favorite spots seem to be in areas where he can't be seen, in dining room or under a chair in the living room. The flooring is all hardwood. He is walked frequently and will eliminate outdoors. He will eliminate indoors if the owner is home or not home. There is a guest staying at the house which may have triggered these recent eliminating events over the past two weeks. The other behavioral issue is that Buttons is dog aggressive. Whenever he sees a dog outside he wants to run towards the dog to initiate fighting behavior or while on a leash will lunge in an aggressive nature towards other dogs. Physical exam is normal. The question is what are your reccomendations for behavioral modifications for these two issues.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Gerry:

This beagle does, indeed, have some issues that will take time and an experienced animal behaviorist to resolve. Please consult the International Association of Animal Behavior Consultants (www.iaabc.org) to find a certified behavior consultant in your area for help. This dog can be helped, but please be patient and do not explain overnight success. Not knowing the total situation - or witnessing this beagle in action, I am guessing that his lunging is not true aggression, but rather out of fear he is bluffy his toughness to prevent the dog from getting near him. There is something going on that is causing this beagle to feel very insecure and anxious. Anti-anxiety meds may be needed, but consult a veterinarian. Good luck!

Kathy P. asks:

We adopted our cat, Abby from a shelter about 3 years ago. She has been healthy with no behavior problems. About 6 months ago I noticed thinning of her fur on both hind quarters. Close observation revealing that she is overcleaning herself in these areas. Is this a behavior that we should be concerned with? Are there particular reasons for this behavior?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Kathy:

Overgrooming is not a normal feline behavior. She may have a medical condition or suffer extreme anxiety that is being exhibited by grooming herself bald. Please consult your vet for help. Abby may need medication temporarily to address this issue.

Lora asks:

My cat Patch has a tendacy to play and splash in her water bowl. Is this normal? If not, how can I change this behavior? She's 9 month's old.

Arden Moore responds:

No worries. It is a common misconception that all cats hate water. Some, like Patch, are intrigued and drawn to it. Patch is actually exhibiting normal feline behavior that can be traced back to her mighty ancestors in the wild. Before drinking from a river or lake, big cats tend to dip their paw in the water to make sure that is nothing dangerous hiding -- like an alligator. This paw movement is genetically wired to Patch. She might enjoy a pet fountain because it circulates and keeps the water fresh.

marina ios asks:

hello

 

i have an abyssinian female cat, she is 9 years old. has always lived inside, is pampered and loved. she usually sleeps in the bed, either with me or by herself

 

recently, she has been grabbing a small portion of the blanket - a soft blanket- with her teeth , and meanwhile she is sort of paddeling with her back feet

 

she is been doing this quite often

it is absolutely NOT bothering me, but i am wondering if she is ok

 

thank you for an answer

 

sincerely

marina ios

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Marina:

As long as she is not eating the blanket, she is okay. Sounds like she is "making a nest" - try giving her a stuffed animal, plush toy for her to 'hug" at night. Hey, at least your cat is anything but boring!

Wendy asks:

I have a 4 year old cat who has always been very loving and affectionate. The other day my husband brought a friend home from work and my cat started hissing at everyone, including my husband. He has never hissed before and he has met many new people over the years. Just today, he started hissing, cornered my husband and bit him so hard it riped his jeans and broke the skin. He also pissed on the floor right in front of my husband. I do not know what is wrong. We did move into a new house, but it has been a month and he has been his usual self the whole time. Any thoughts?

Arden Moore responds:

Please have your vet give your cat a thorough exam, including lab tests. He may have a medical problem causing this rash change of behavior.

Mandy Ordway asks:

I have two kittens that are about 6 months old. They have started to get on the tables, and counters. How do I get them to stay off the counters?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Mandy:

Kittens need vertical places to hone their athletic skills. Get them a sturdy cat tree and place double-sided tape on your counters to make those surfaces less feline friendly.

christopher_irwin asks:

Hi Arden,

 

I hope all is well. I share a two bedroom apartment with a roommate and his two cats (Max and Pixel). Max used to belong to the "moved-out" roommate and was left behind. The old roommate whose room I took had kept the litter box outside his door. Pixel goes in the cat box, whereas Max continues to go in front of my door, on the floor. Currently, the cat box is in the living room. Is there some way I can break Max's habit and get him to use the box? Thanks, you rock!

 

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Christopher:

Try placing Max's food bowl in front of your door - to dissaude him from using that place as a feline bathroom. Is the litter box in the living room hooded? If so, remove the lid and stash it along a perimeter of the living room and not in the middle of the room. Also consider plugging in a Feliway in the living room to help with Max's insecurities. And you rock, too!

Jeanne B asks:

I have 3 cats. The first one was a stray who had been hit by a car. His name is Puddy, he is about 11 years old, about 12 -13 lbs. and still pretty skiddish although he has come an extremely long way. Next I adopted 2 rescue cats, one of them was a kitten who someone had punched and he needed his eye removed, his name is Oliver and he is 2 years old now. The other cat is Franny and she is almost 4 years old and weighs about 2 lbs. Franny is a wobbler.

Franny and Oliver play great and Puddy and Oliver enjoy playing together too. The problem is Puddy and Franny. Most of the time they are friendly in passing but any time that Puddy goes to use the litterbox, Franny will immediately charge at him, like she is going to attack. Sometimes she even guards the litterbox and won't let him near. All of the cats are fixed. We don't really have a place to put a second litterbox upstairs but we do have 2 of them side by side downstairs. Puddy is 5 times her size and has no trouble fending for himself when he plays with Oliver, but for some reason he lets this little 2 lb. fluff ball scare him so bad he can't use his litterbox. He had urinated a few times upstairs. Sometimes he is able to go quietly without her knowing and sometimes I take him down and guard the area from Franny.

Please help.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Jeanne:

As I have mentioned in this column, you need a third litter box and one not on the same level. Please be creative and find a place upstairs to put a litter box. You can "hide" in under table with a curtain, but this is definitely needed in your multi-cat household.

Marlon asks:

My 9 month cat, who is friendly and crazy, is in her meeting other boys mood. I was wondering why is she still whining, I thought cats would whine only in summmer, when it's winter here?

Arden Moore responds:

Females can go in heat twice a year. I hope you have spayed your cat. If not, please consider doing so for her overall health and behavior -- unless you are a professional breeder.

Carol Morris asks:

I recently inhereted an 8 year old male cat. Although he has exceptional litter box manners, I often find him just sitting in the litter box. I've seen another male cat do this before. Is there a reason for this behavior?

Arden Moore responds:

Strange as it may sound, some cats dig hanging out in their litter boxes. Hopefully, this one is scooped daily. They like their own smell. As long as he is using the litter box, just let him be. Chalk it up to a quirky feline habit.

jacklyn asks:

my jack russell terrier is almost 4 months old. she has been throwing up everyday for the past week. when she throws up it is usually chuncky mostly her dog food (which is still in whole pieces) i dont know what to do! she did this a while back but my vet said she was alright. but now it is more frequent! any suggestions on what is going on or what i should do?? please help! thank you!!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Jacklyn:

A young pup should not be vomiting on a daily basis and may become malnourished. Please seek veterinary care. I would encourage you to get a second veterinary opinion - and fast! Dogs do most of their physical growth in their first year and your dog needs to keep down quality food to grow and develop properly.

Karra Sheridan asks:

My beautiful, social, perfectly white cat loves to roll in dirt. I got her as a rescue kitty, we've had her for 5 years and this seems to be one of her favorite pastimes. She is healthy and a great pet but rolling in dirt, sand, etc seems odd to me. Is this normal cat behavior?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Karra:

Your cat's name isn't Pigpen, is it? Strange, yes. Unusual, no. Some cats like to give themselves a grooming session by rolling in the dirt. It is also done by some cats as a way to "camoflague" their scent so they can sneak up on prey - like a bird or bug in your back yard.

Brigette asks:

I have a 2 1/2 year old female, indoor, spayed cat. She is a loveable little girl, but has some behaviour problems. She reacts somewhat aggresively whenever anyone knocks at the door. Generally, she will fluff up and hiss a little bit. Usually, I can get to the door first and step outside before any incidents. Unfortunately, this week, she attacked me in the confusion. She is declawed, but with her sharp teeth she actually ripped through my sweatpants with her teeth and left some pretty bad bites. I had to get a tetanus shot and now am on 10 days of antibiotics for the wounds. I know she feels threatened or is fearful, but how to avoid these random, unpredictable acts of aggression? She is also not very keen on new people in the house. I have to coach them on how to behave around her so she will not be threatened and so she can make herself comfortable around them first. I am really the only one that can safely pet her or pick her up. I love her so much, but I also do not want to fear for my own safety and the safety of others for the future. I thought maybe there was a medicine I could give her to calm her down a bit, but I'm not sure that is really the solution. I don't have the money to spend on a behaviourist, so I'm seeking advice. There has been an incident or two in the past where a stranger walked into the house, one with me and one without me, and both times she attacked them. They were not threatening her specifically, but she still attacked. I am nervous to have anyone to my house, unless I keep her in my bedroom, and I am extremely careful not to schedule any maintenance on the house, unless I am home. Is there anything I can do or not to to help her grow out of this??

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Brigette:

Please check with your vet about possibly giving some antianxiety meds to your cat. This is very violent behavior that may have a medical cause. Also, consider providing your cat with a safe room in the house with all the cat amenities rather than the full run of the house. She can read your nervous energy each time you try to beat her to the door.

Nancy asks:

I have a part siamese black cat, about 8 years old. I have had the cat since he was 8 weeks old. He is very unfriendly to everyone, hisses and swats at them and occasionally tries to nip at people. He growls like a dog sometimes too. He constantly is meowing and crying for no reason and will eat like a horse if I let him. I have always given him every comfort and attention and yet his "bad attitude" gets progressively worse. I am at my wits end and don't know what to do about it.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Nancy:

Has this cat been unfriendly for 8 years? Wow. That's a long time to be so angry. Instead of trying to "comfort" your cat, get up and give him the "cold shoulder" when he gets in a hissy mood. Don't reward him for bad behavior. Reward him with a treat or a little affection when he is calm.

j brown asks:

I have a 7mo old tabby cat that we rescued. She chases her tail around and around. Does she have a behavior problem?

Arden Moore responds:

Cats, just like people, can develop obsessive compulsive disorders. If this is an occasional behavior that doesn't leave her dizzy, she may just be bored (and young). If not, consult a veterinarian so you can nip this behavior before it becomes destructive.

JUSTINE asks:

I have a 5 month old cat named Zelda. She continuously meows and cries by the front door, although she is never allowed out that door. I have and still do give her all the attention and commodities she needs, but she continues to prefer to spend most of her time crying by the front door. Is there anything I can do?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Justine:

Young kittens like Zelda can be experts at persistency. Each time you go over to her when she cries, you unintentionally are "rewarding" her behavior by giving her attention. Try ignoring her, walking out of the room. You can also sit down with your back to her and start playing with a feather wand or shoe lace to entice her to stop her meowing and come over for a little play time. OUtdoor enclosures are also available for a variety of prices that give cats a sense of the outdoors in a safe way.

Michelle asks:

I have one cat. I got her when she was about 6 months old and living in Hawaii. She was very personable and friendly. I then got deployed and had to give her to my dad, in New York, for the deployment. During the deployment she stopped being friendly and had one accident where she urinated on a bean bag chair in front of my father and another where she deficated in the tub.

 

Upon return from my deploy my cat was very different. She is only friendly to my boyfriend and I and hisses at all strangers. She also had three accidents where she urinated in a piece of luggage twice and on the Chrismas tree skirt. She will always do this right in front of me.

 

I recently move from Hawaii to Illinois. She had one accident again right in front of me. My brother recently deployed and now I am watching his two cats. Since getting his two cats my cat has had several accidents. They all have been right in front of me.

 

It seems like she is trying to show me she is angry but how do I make her stop? Thanks.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Michelle:

She may be conveying in her best feline way that there is a medical problem. Please have her thoroughly tested by a veterinarian - especially for FLUTD (feline lower urinary tract disease). Good luck!

Robin asks:

Our 2 year old male cat who has been inseparable from our 7 month old male kitten over a month, turned viciously on the kitten after its brief trip to the vet. The kitten returned an hour later and the older cat acts as if he is an arch enemy and hisses and hides and is totally loony. The little one can't understand this. We are stumped.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Robin:

Sounds like your kitty has VCK -- veterinary clinic kooties. Take a slightly damp towel and rub it down the back and face of your cat, then on your kitten and then back on your cat to "exchange" scents so that the vet clinic smell is gone.

Lisa Philpott asks:

Hello,

We have had four cats for about five years now. Two shorthair tortoise girls, and two longhair boys. All four are fixed, and all are from the same litter.

Two are laidback. They are Oreo and Egypt. Two are territorial. Stripe and Domino.

We recently had to move. And I have noticed more odd behavior between Domino and Stripe.

Domino will stare at Stripe until she retreats under some furniture. Or he will chase her up some furniture, making her hiss. If he continues to persist, the sounds of a catfight will ensue. (Think of those cartoons of catfights. That's what it sounds like.)

This noise will continue until I intervene with a spray bottle.

Putting Calm Down in their water isn't helping anymore. Please tell me what's wrong with these two cats? Will they ever live peacefully in our new home? What can we do to halt their bad behavior?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Lisa:

Sorry to hear about the feline feud. Putting calming meds in a water bowl and hoping a cat will drink an adequate amount to make it work is a long shot. Instead, try rubbing a few drops of Rescue Remedy directly into the tiny capillaries of each cat's inner ear tip (NOT in the ear canal). It is a more direct transmission. Also give Domino some more play time so he can re-direct his energy to a more acceptable behavior. Good luck!

Carlene asks:

Thanks for getting back to me. I have the Feliway already and ordered the Rescue Remedy drops. I spoke with a lady Marily Kreiger who is an animal behaviorist in California and she said she will do a phone consultation with me. Is that what you recommend? The ones my vet gave me in the area are 400-500 dollars and that is out of my budget. I just don't want to get ripped off by doing this over the phone...any suggestions?

 

Thanks

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Carlene:

I know Marilyn and she is knowledgeable and affordable. Good luck!

Arden

jeffro asks:

my 13 year old cat/indoor. is crying. she doesnt want to move or let me touch her. she has a horrable smell of a dead animal to her. Im worried.

Arden Moore responds:

Please take her to a veterinarian immediately!

Parker Perry asks:

Hi Dr,

I have 1 cat and and we recently moved homes. She does not move very well so my veternarian prescribed something to chill her out for the move. She is not a shy cat but she is for a few weeks after we move. She has been hiding under a blanket quite a bit since we moved. My question is this....there is a urine smell where she has been laying, is this normal? She deffinietely did not urinate there because its dry and she does not have a urinary tract infection or anything. It smells like urine but is she "spraying" or something? Hope you can enlighten me on this. She is a great cat with good behaviors so thsi urine "smell" was odd. Hope you can help. Thanks in advance!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Parker:

Get rid of that blanket and have your cat re-checked for any FLUTD conditions.

Barbara Hanks asks:

We have a 9 yrs old I beieve 1/2 Siminese & Calico(not sure ) could be just a tom cat. He is white w/blue eyes that sometimes tu rn gold w/brown spots on he back and his tail brown and he holds it up and he wiggles it in the air(cute) anyways... I got rid of the love seat that he was sleeping on and got him a nice soft cushy bed... he refuse to get in it. So we put a little bit of pounce & cat nip in it to see if he would get in the bed (no luck) can you advise us what to do? I beleive he is upset w/us he goes and lay in the spot where the love seat use to be... we talk to him but....he still hasn't really slept in the cat bed... he usually gets up on the couch with me for awhile then he jumps down and goes where the love seat use to be and lay there. We have tried everything to get him to lay in the bed.... I mean I put some catnip in his bed for him...... We love him so much We did have another cat but she died two years ago,we had her for 15 years. (I miss Cee-Cee) but.... we still have snowball he is something else, my husband can say pounce and he understands... so I figure he would understand when we say to him"thats your bed snowball!!" Oh no... he just turns his head....

Can you help us????

Thanks!

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Barbara:

Your cat is clearing indicating that thanks, but no thanks for the cat bed, so my advice is to clean it and donate it an animal shelter or cattery that have cats who will enjoy it. Cats are quite savvy and will select comfy spots of their choosing. He is not trying to insult you -- but he simply is not interested in the cat bed. Try placing a folded old bath towel in a sunny spot and see if he opts to take a cat nap on it.

Carlene asks:

How are you doing? I am writing you for some help. I have a great cat that is 6 years old. I have had him since he was a kitten and got him from a shelter. He was a stray and I was told he was the most aggressive out of his siblings and had to be taught how to interact with humans. However, when I got him he was already trained and so sweet. He remains a great cat and is very loving. He is like a dog in the sense that he follows me around, he lays on his back so you can pet him, you pick him up and he goes limp in your arms and he likes to be around people.

The problem is that every now and again he will snap and attack me. Yesterday morning was the latest and I had to go to the Dr and now on antibiotics. He wrapped his mouth around my arm and punctured my skin. He did the same thing a few months back and I also had to go on antibiotics. In the past he would bite but it was getting better..once or twice a year and never to the point of medical assistance. I can tell when he is in "a mood" and I usually stay clear but the last time I was petting him, stopped, and he bit my arm. I am not sure what to do at this point...I don't know how to discipline him either. What should I do to avoid biting and to discipline him when he does act this way?

I don't' want to get rid of him because he is so sweet but I can't have this happening. I bought Rescue Remedy herbal drops that my vet tech recommended but haven't used it yet. I figured that would help if he is anxious.

Any suggestions or help?????

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Carlene:

Cat bites are extremely serious. Please work with a veterinary behaviorist in your area for the right plan to calm down your cat. In addition to Rescue Remedy (best to administer in the tiny capillaries in the tip of the ear (not the ear canal), there is also Feliway (a plug-in that emits calming feline pheromones) and medications to address aggression and anxiety in cats. Your cat needs to be treated by such an expert - do not try "disciplining" as this may only further provoke and intensify the attacks.

ashley asks:

for the past year periodicall my min schaucer takes skaing fits and i dont know what do it really scares me

Arden Moore responds:

Your dog may be having epileptic seizures. See your veterinarian now.

Joanne conti asks:

What would cause a 8 month old lab to stand transfixed and almost catatonic for a few minutes, head lowered, eyes slightly glazed and fixed? My daughter has two labs (brothers) and the black lab is smaller, and thinner, and seems to have what might be the opposite of seizures.....it reminds me of paintings of ancient egyptian dancers...the way the stand, hands up and eyes and head still.....does this sound like anything you have come upon before? She loves her dogs and this one worries her greatly. Thank you for any information or suggestions you may give. Regards, Joanne

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Joanne:

This is a young dog and a lab - who as a breed, tend to be playful and full of energy. I strongly encourage you to have this lab given a thorugh exam by a vet - including blood and urine analysis. THis is not normal behavior for a young dog and it may signal a medical condition.

Lynne asks:

My chihuahua/Pomeranian dog is 5 yrs old and in the last month we have had a problem with excessive barking after we leave at 5 a.m. There are complaints from the neighbors and have contacted our vet who gave her some medicine (like Prozac) which has not helped. We purchased a collar that transmits beeps when she barks. Though we just got it, I was told about a citronella god collar and was wondering if this works better as it seems dogs do not like this especially when it goes on their fur. We tried spraying her with water when she barks and she does not like this so I am thinking that this might work better. Please advise.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Lynne:

Citronella collars emit bursts of a smell most dogs detest. Do not use any electronic collar that emits shocks - you can worsen the situation and it is cruel. Forgo the water bottle, too. In my book, The Dog Behavior Answer Book, I go into great detail on how to re-direct marathon barkers. I encourage you to get this book.

Heidi Mahoney asks:

I have a beautiful, 9 year old Burmese cat who is beautiflly behaved in every way EXCEPT she meows almost constantly when she is up and about. Her voice is a rather loud and insistent Burmese/Siamese wail which gets rather taxing over several hours. She has been with me for 6 months and is most affectionate but this problem does not seem to be abating. How can I help her to diminish this habit.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Heidi:

You had me at Meow - that's Burmese talk for hey, we are known for being a chatty breed. As I detail in my book, The Cat Behavior Answer Book, cats are quick studies. They realize that we are often oblivious to their obvious body language, so some often attempt to communicate vocally. 

Burmese need jobs, regular play. She may be bored. Give her some solo toys and spend time playing with her. Yelling at her will only encourage her to talk more. Occasionally, walk out of the room when she starts her chatter.  

M. Fairfield asks:

My male border collie mix has medium length hair. We live in a climate that gets down to as low as the 20's and 30's during the day time. He is kept in the garage at night. He occassionally shivers during the daytime. My husband insists the dog is fine. I think we need to do something about it. We have two outside dogs. The other one does have a thicker coat. She does not shiver. Should he have a warmer place for the day too? How bad is the shivering for him? Is dog shivering similar to human shivering?

Arden Moore responds:

Why is your dog relegated to the garage - dogs are pack animals and companions. They need and deserve to be indoors with you. His coat does not insulate well in the cold as would say, a Siberian husky. Please bring your dog inside. Train him to sleep in a crate at night with bedding as a compromise with your husband. Also, the garage floor is cold, damp and may contain antifreeze puddles - that are extremely toxic to dogs. Your dog needs to be inside  - day and night.

katherine philo asks:

Why is my cat (male 6yrs.) pawing at the window blinds in our bedroom at 4:AM . There is food and water available. He sometimes also does this on other blinds during the day. This started about 2 weeks ago. Thanks

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Katherine:

There is something in the outside environment that is triggering your cat's behavior. Can you keep your cat in another room at night? Or, for now, trying rolling up the window blinds. Maintain your privacy by placing a thick, dark styrofoam board in the window and adhering double-sided tape on both sides. Your cat won't like his paw touching this tape. THis is a temporarily solution to nip his habit -- I know it won't win any home design awards, but give that a try.

Christy asks:

I am having an issue with introducing a new cat to my 2 existing cats. My two existing cats are 15 and 8 years old, both female, and have gotten along fine together for years.

A 2-3 year old female cat showed up at the house back in October. I was able to locate her owner since to has a microchip, but the owner didn't want to take her back. Therefore, my husband and I decided to keep her.

This new cat chases and fights with my 2 existing cats every chance she gets. We tried keeping them separated for a month and swapping spaces so that had a chance to get used to each other's sent. We then tried to start introducing them for 10 or 15 minutes at a time. Every time, the new cat hisses, growls, and begins to chase the others and start fighting almost immediately.

I'm not sure what else to try to get these 3 to get along. My older 2 cats are now scared of her and run immediately when they see the new cat.

I am concerned about the chasing and fighting with my 15 year old as she has a bad hip and I am worried about further injury (this has happened once already).

Any advice you can provide? I really don't want to have to give up the new cat. She is good with my husband and I and in these bad economic times, I'm not sure we will have any luck finding her a new home. Please help.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Christy:

What was the reason given by the original owners for not wanting this cat back? I encourage you to consult your vet about temporarily giving some anti-anxiety meds to your two cats and medication to tone down the bully nature of your new arrival. You need to consult a certified applied animal behaviorist or a veterinary behaviorist to adequately resolve this situation. Please do so soon before it escalates any further.

Elizabeth asks:

Hi there

I have a cat that is currently staying with my parents because I can not have my kitties at the moment where I am.

Possem, my kitty, has recently defecated and urinated on my parents' bed twice, on the same spot.

She has NEVER done anything like this, she has always been very particular about going in the litter box.

My parents' cat just had kittens about 1-2 months ago, and have blocked them into the room where the litter box has always been, and put a new litter box in the room next to that.

I personally feel that this is a big part of the problem.

Also the spot that she has chosen to 'go' on their bed is where their cat likes to nap.

I've told them that I feel that they need to put a litter box away from the kittens, and that this is territorial towards their cat.

But they don't want to take my opinion to heart.

Any suggestions?

Arden Moore responds:

H Elizabeth:

May you find a cat-welcoming place so so you can be re-united with Possem. Try going to www.rentwithpets.org website for helpful tips.

Any chance you can have your cat stay at a pet-savvy friend's home for now -- one that doesn't have a momma cat with kittens? This seems like a win-win solution for you and your parents.

Norma Macy asks:

Our Calico Female cat is 4 yrs. old . We got her as a kitty from a litter of 6. We had her in for check up, shots, etc. then decided to have her declawed and neutered. She is semi playful-when it suits her. We let her come to bed with us if and when she wishes. She gets me up at odd hours lately to groom her. I have groomed her since she came to live with us. When it was time for another shot after all her surgery was well over, we took her back to the vet-a lady we really like and seems dedicated to her work. When we got her cage in the exam room and attempted to take her out, she attacked all of us, especially the vet. It ended up that the vet asked us not to bring her back! I still groom her but for the last year or two, she will try to bite me about once or twice a week while seemingly enjoying her grooming. She gets my hand and arm every now and then and draws blood. She is not friendly to anyone that comes to visit except the neighbor across the street who has a cat. For some reason she meets her at the door and rubs against her leg and purrs. She will have nothing to do with my lovely little family who come several miles for a visit about four times a year. They have a dog and a cat.

They think she is just a mean cat. To be groomed, she usually jumps upon the vanity in the bathroom and jumps down when she has had enough. But sometimes, just all of a sudden bites with no warning. My husband plays daily with her and she often jumps on his lap to nap. We really love her but don't know how to break her of the biting. I have knocked her clear off the sink but that doesn't seem to faze her and besides it makes me feel terrible. She is an indoor cat of course. Thank you for any help and I realize it could be a long time hearing from you judging from all these Q & A. You are greatly appreciated I'm sure!

Arden Moore responds:

HI Norma:

First, thanks for understanding. My behavior expert role with the Morris Animal Foundation is voluntary - I am doing this to help people better understand why cats and dogs do what they do so that there is harmony in the household. I cannot possibly answer each and every question in this seemingly popular column.

I'm not sure if your cat is mean -- but scared and has adopted the fight of the fight-or-flight stress response. She is declawed, so her teeth are her only "weapons" when she feels threatened. She also sounds like she is training you - when to be groomed, etc.

Encourage your neighbor to make regular visits so your cat can be nice. Limit the amount of time you pet your cat -for now. When she jumps in your lap, trying standing up and walking away for now. Give her the kitty "cold shoulder" routine. Don't force affeciton. Sweet talk her and give her soft winks but don't be doing a lot of touching for now.

As for your family visiting, I hope your cat can have a safe place - out of reach by your relatives' dog and cat.

Use those kitten mitten toys or feather wands - never your hand when playing. Spritz your hands and forearms with citrus from oranges - cats hate the taste. Also check with your vet - they do make some nifty rubberized items that slip over your hand and forearms that are cat-bite proof.

Laura Franzen asks:

I have two male cats the same age (8 yrs) that do not get along. One chases the other out of the litter box every time he goes there and he ends up pooping on the floor right outside the box. Is there anything I can do to stop this behavior? I have 2 litter boxes, tried seperating them in the house, etc. and nothing seems to work. Once he hears the noice of the litter he runs to chase the other cat out.

Thanks,

Laura

Arden Moore responds:

Keep a long, lightweight lead on your bully cat. Step on the lead when he starts to dash toward your other cat who needs to go to the litter box.

Teresa asks:

How do you stop a very affectionate kitten from climbing on her owner? It is very painful!

Arden Moore responds:

Redirect by keeping a feather wand or other cat toy within easy reach and ecouraging your kitten to give chase. Also, sounds silly, but put doublesided tape on your bluejeans. Cats hate that sticky texture. Do this when you are home alone with your cat - not when you plan to entertain house guests -- unless, of course, they are cat people, and understand about the high-energy, gotta-climb nature of kittens. Finally, your kitten needs a sturdy and tall scratching post/cat tree to climb.

Pam asks:

I have just adopted a stray calico who was a stray. I had her spayed and declawed and a physical and shots. She does not seem to know about the litter box. I have her confined to a large bathroom with tile floors and have a bed and her food and water at one end and the litter box at the other. She will not use the litter box. I have purt her in it and showed her how to scratch the litter but she wants to lie down in it. I think I have tried all the logical tricks but am getting very frustrated. It has been five days since she came home from the vet. I have always been under the impression that cats and kittens instinctively know once you show them the box that it is their potty. I really look forward to your expertise. Thanks.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Pam:

I am unclear - is your cat urinating and defecating at all? If so, she may have a blockage that needs medical attention pronto. If not, try providing litter boxes with different types of litter - clumpable, recycled newspaper pellets, etc. The problem may be that your calico doesn't like the feel of the litter. Good luck!

Anna asks:

I have a blended multi-cat household. 2 male cats (not the alpha male) have been urinating in the house. I took them to the vet who found UTIs and they are being treated. I'm afraid it has become a habit and I don't want to make them outdoor kitties. How can I correct this behavior so all cats can live peacefully in the house without destroying it?

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Anna:

I am glad you went to your vet and ID the medical cause. You need a fresh start -- new litter boxes, litter, etc. Make sure you have at least ONE more litter box in your home than the number of cats. I go into much greater detail than I can do in this expert column in my book, The Cat Behavior Answer Book. I devote an entire section to litter box habits of cats.

ginavieve asks:

Does having a dogs whiskers cut off effect the dog?

Arden Moore responds:

Yes - temporarily. Whiskers help dogs and cats navigate and sense objects near them. Fortunately, they grow back within 2-3 months. Please do not cut your dog's whiskers.

suzy asks:

I posted a question yesterday (12/4/08). I saw it at the top of the list before I logged off. Today it doesn't appear anywhere...not in the answered or unanswered areas. Why is this? Thanks.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Suzy:

We are working on creating FAQ section due to the extremely high volume of questions. We cannot answer each question individually. Please be patient and look for the FAQ section coming soon.

Cathy L Hewitt asks:

I got a new kitten and now my older cat is going outside his litter box on my rugs and furniture what can I do

Arden Moore responds:

Litter box issues climb to the top of cat behavior (and medical) problems. Due to the volume of questions we have received regarding litter box issues, we will be posting a FAQ (frequently asked questions) section on the Morris Animal Foundation's Expert Center soon. Please be patient.

Ron asks:

My 2 year old cocker spaniel is very vocal - not barking, but like he is trying to speak. (He sounds like the wookie in Star Wars.)

The problem is that people take it as agressive growling. He does this when he is being pet or massaged, which he loves - he never tries to get away.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Ron:

Try placing a fun, colorful bandana on your dog, having him sit and stay when guests visit and then ask him to "sing" for your guests. Turn his vocals into a doggy seranade. Reward him with a small treat for sitting and singing in place. Explain to people before they touch him or massage him, that he is a chatty canine. Be upbeat - dogs read our moods!

Mary Auslander asks:

We are a couple whose blended household brought together 2 cats who were used to each other and a third (my partner's cat) who lived alone. They are all female and now about 9-10 years old. One of the original two (Tildee) is extremely territorial and often stalks and attacks the third cat (Mojo). The worst is when poor Mojo is attacked while trying to use the box (there is more than one box). Mojo became very self-harmful, overcleaning, extremely jumpy, and finally, biting all her fur off her belly. She's responded well to a small dose of amytryptelene (a last resort), but still has to live with being attacked. We've tried intervening, but the behavior happens over again, almost every day. We're beginning to wonder if Tildee needs medication, too! What else can we try?

Many thanks.

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Mary:

I am glad to see that you want the best for your cats. You are right. Sometimes, medication benefits both the attacked cat AND the attacker. Please consult your vet for the right medication to tone down Tildee's temperament.

Sydney asks:

Hi Arden!

Tabitha was rescued 10 yrs ago and has had 1 litter of 3 (which I kept) She is a tortoise tabby w/ beautiful green eyes! I let them out to play(only for a couple of hours)when they got older and then stopped that when we "lost" one of male kittens when he was approx 2. Now everyone stays in....the remaining kittens are 9 male and female.

HERE'S my question:

Ever since I returned home from Thanksgiving (they are never boarded-my neighbors check on them) Tabitha has retreated to the closet--she howls often like she's in "heat"..but all hve been fixed many years ago. I've coaxed her finally out of the closet, when I caught her going to the litter box and smellijng fresh like pine! this is the 4th day and she ate some yesterday and today...I can't tell if she's drinking too much but the last 2 nights she has slept on my high big king bed...today was more social but when she changes position to sleep she makes that "WILD gutteral sound"! there is no discharge or vomiting that I can tell.....I am a single mom and want good care for my animals, but lost my job and I have to really "think-out" going to the vet. The only things that have changed really is that my niece came for a visit the wknd before and brought her big german shepard that I let in the house and put my 3 kitties w/ litter and food back in my master BD/bath. they never came in contact with the dog. when they left the cats came out and could've smelled him?

I wondered if Tabitha is just moody and mad about the dog...but the noises she makes make me wonder if she is in pain. THNX for your help!! sydney

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Sydney:

Please have your vet exmain Tabitha - sounds like there may be a medical issue triggering her behavior.

judy asks:

I am hopping you can clear up a question my husband and i disagree on. my son has a wii gun that has red light on it the dog likes to chase after it my husband says it bad for him i say not.can you help

thank you

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Judy:

The only way I can see this red beam of light harming your dog is if he runs into a piece of furniture in his dogged pursuit. Just to be sure, though, pitch this question to your veterinarian.

Joyce Lomnick asks:

We have adopted a l year old calico cat from a shelter. She seemed so loving and wanted to be loved. I took her to the vet to be checked out. It has been 4 days and the only way I can love her, or see her is when I pull her out from under the bed. I have not actually seen her walk around the house or check anything out. We are seniors and had to put our beloved Mickey to sleep 4 months ago. We wanted to give this beautiful cat a loving home. We named her Callie, but she won't respond to anything. I am becoming very frustrated. I have no idea what her history is, and the shelter didn't know. I don't want to develop negative feelings toward her. the shelter told me it would take a couple of days for her to adjust, but I am wondering if it will ever change. Just don't know what to do - please help. Thank you, Joce Lomnick

Arden Moore responds:

Hi Joyce:

I, too, have a calico named Callie. I adopted her when she was about 5 weeks old - abandoned from her litter and running the streets scared. Calicos tend to be skittish and shy in their early years. Callie was.

You need and deserve to have a great relationship with a cat, however, a few days may seem like forever to people, but it is mere seconds in the mind of a cat. Callie may just be unsure, scared. Please give it more time.

Pulling out from under your bed actually worsens the situation. For now, keep your closet doors shut and other places she can hide - except for her safety zone - under your bed. Try placing a small meat treat under the bed and WALKING away. You will build her trust. When she is out from under the bed, don't go toward her. Instead, look at her with sweet eyes and deliver soft winks. She needs time to feel at home. My Callie is now super sweet and loves to greet visitors. I wish you the best!

Cassandra asks:

Hi, We adopted a cat (Pongo) in September and he us been wonderful until recently. We live in a fairly small one bedroom apartment and I